docs: rewrite for users — drop internal infra context

README + supporting docs were written for ourselves (deployment paths,
internal product comparisons, internal task lists, build pipeline
artifacts) instead of for users of the software. This pass refocuses
them on what the software is, how to install, configure, and use it.

- README.md: full rewrite. New shape — What it does / Architecture /
  Build / Run / Configuration / MCP tools / Security model / Status /
  License / Dependencies. Drops the internal "why we built it"
  narrative, drops phase-status claims that drifted stale, drops
  internal deployment paths.
- ROADMAP.md: deleted. Was an internal task-list with [x]/[ ] items
  showing incremental private development. The README's Status
  section now communicates what's actually shipped.
- docs/architecture.md: scrub cross-project comparisons referencing
  unrelated internal Sulkta codebases.
- aiken-escrow/README.md: drop reference to a non-existent spec file;
  rewrite the Status checklist to reflect what's actually done
  rather than what was open at the time of writing.
- aiken-escrow/README.md: scrub internal image names +
  container paths; the audit findings (chain hashes, validator hash,
  what each tx proved) are the public-useful part and stay.
- aiken-escrow/README.md: drop references to
  feature-flag-gated branches that no longer exist.
- Dockerfile: drop the dead `escrow_wip surface` phrase from comments.
- Cargo.toml: drop the cross-project comparison comment that named
  an unrelated internal service.
- crates/aldabra-{core,dao}: scrub internal preprod-test naming from
  source comments — same technical content, generic phrasing.

Dockerfile

@@ -57,12 +57,12 @@ RUN apt-get update && \
 
 COPY --from=builder /build/target/release/aldabra /usr/local/bin/aldabra
 
-# Escrow V3 validator CBOR (escrow_wip surface). Baked at /etc/aldabra/
-# escrow/validator.cbor.hex so MCP escrow_*_unsigned tools can pass it
-# via `validator_script_path`. The MCP arg-truncation bug at >4500 hex
-# chars makes the inline `validator_script_cbor_hex` option unusable
-# for the 7902-char compiled validator. Validator hash:
-# a8081acef26935d9b5f44b92052178e17301b6d6e6808c91c5b56f5d — check
+# Escrow V3 validator CBOR. Baked at /etc/aldabra/escrow/validator.cbor.hex
+# so MCP escrow_*_unsigned tools can pass it via `validator_script_path`.
+# An MCP arg-truncation bug at >4500 hex chars makes the inline
+# `validator_script_cbor_hex` option unusable for the 7902-char compiled
+# validator, so file-path mode is the canonical way to wire it. Validator
+# hash: a8081acef26935d9b5f44b92052178e17301b6d6e6808c91c5b56f5d — check
 # against the file's compiled hash before invoking on-chain ops.
 COPY aiken-escrow/validator.cbor.hex /etc/aldabra/escrow/validator.cbor.hex
 COPY aiken-escrow/plutus.json /etc/aldabra/escrow/plutus.json