Bug: my anti-zombie guard from 4707e6a was too strict — WHERE clause
required state IN ('running','applying') to update. But the normal
flow goes running→review→applying→done. Once a job entered review,
NO state transition could fire — including the legitimate apply
sequence triggered by user clicking "apply selected".
Symptom Cobb hit: clicked apply on job 6, the daemon thread did the
work (11 of 13 proposals applied cleanly to Mealie), but the row
stayed at state='review' so the UI never moved off the review screen.
The 11 successful applies are real — Mealie has the updated
recipeIngredient food links. The bookkeeping just didn't follow.
Fix: change WHERE clause from a positive whitelist (running/applying)
to a negative blocklist (NOT IN done/failed/cancelled). This still
prevents the original failure mode (daemon overwriting a user-cancelled
job) — terminal states still can't be overwritten — but lets review
transition to applying when the user approves.
Same fix applied to finalize_consolidate_job since it copy-pasted the
same too-strict guard.